Women are not only insecure when war and dissent arise. They are insecure even when a stable democracy is ensured or in a peaceful environment. They are more likely to be attacked in public or in private. According to a study by the Institute for Security Studies, 35 percent of women worldwide suffer from physical and sexual violence. Similarly, at the international level, 38 percent of women are killed by well-known, close, or intimate friends.
If women are not protected by their own people, then security from strangers cannot be guaranteed. Often they are attacked when they are alone. How can they be safe in such a situation? The following tips from Martial Arts experts Steve Cardian, Melissa Spoilt, and other security experts may be effective:
Observe The surrounding (Serofero lai Bujnu)
should not be distracted while walking alone. You should be able to observe what is going on in your surroundings. We should not focus only on what is ahead of us. It is not wise to follow one's own tune. That is to say, not only the road but also the environment.
Suppose you are returning home from the office. Suppose you have to walk a dark path alone. What if you're walking around with your headphones on and listening to music? What if you walk to your own tune? Men who are involved in physical and sexual violence may be sitting on the sidewalk and the possibility of you being attacked cannot be ruled out. In other words, he may be subjected to physical and sexual violence. You can get help from your brother or sister to avoid this kind of attack and violence. In the absence of a brother or sister, walk with a strong attitude. Walk on the road with high confidence. Similarly, keep peripheral vision while walking. If you meet a stranger, look at him directly as if he were a potential attacker. This kind of look creates fear in the attacking man. As a result, you can be safe.
All of us who believe in intuition have
intuition. We have an inner voice that signals danger. Warns that something is wrong, an unfavorable situation has arisen. Unfortunately, this is not the voice we hear. We are not able to understand intuition. We can't believe it.
It is the nature of women to be kind, polite, obedient, and helpful. Women with similar temperaments tend to be in the eye of the beholder. Aggressive men are skilled at lying and projecting a false reality. They can take off any woman's protective armor, win her heart and stay close.
Suppose a stranger comes to talk to you on the street. Asked for some help. At such times, try to listen to your inner voice. Be aware of what the inner mind says, what you feel. If you feel uncomfortable, it is not necessary to talk to the stranger and take the initiative. Sometimes it is not bad to be rude at such times. This will keep you safe from strangers. So trust your intuition to avoid potential attacking men.
Fear arises when a physical attack is made by a stranger who is already planning. During this time the amount of adrenaline hormone in the body increases. Although this hormone is produced to help fight the danger, the body becomes stable. Panic increases. No new plan can be devised to stay safe in such a situation. If we have a pre-plan, we can be safe from any attack.
Every attacking man attacks unexpectedly. In that case, you should be able to give an unexpected response when planning. Due to which the plan of the attacking man may be thwarted. Similarly, every attacking man has two fears. First, the fear that someone will see, that someone will recognize. Second, the fear of hurting yourself. The same thing applies with urgency.
Suppose someone attacks you unexpectedly. Suppose the assailant wanted to take you along. In that case, use the pre-planning you have prepared. Use all your strength. Shout as loudly as you can. Doing so creates fear in the attacking man. And you succeed in saving your life.
Women who fight to get rid of it are stronger. This does not mean that they are stronger than men. Most men have higher physical strength and height than women. Similarly, the physical constitution of men is bigger and stronger than that of women. Aggressive men use the same physical strength, physique and fear tactics to subdue women.
If you are under the control of an attacker, if your life is in danger, do not try to defeat the attacker to save your life. Focus on how to get rid of the invader. Stay tuned for the right time. Maintain maximum patience. The physical distance between you and the attacker is greatly reduced when the attacker is in control. Try to use this proximity to get rid of it. When the attacker is distracted, strike the attacker in the area between the eyes, neck, waist, and thighs. You can also hit the attacker in both ears with the heel shoes you are wearing. It is imperative that the steps you take, wherever you strike, be 100% accurate. It is very important to be unique. If you do this, the attacker will lose his balance. So you can be free from the clutches of the invader.
Meeting new people in groups
is now the digital age. The use of digital media is increasing in this age. Face-to-face meetings are rare. You can easily connect with anyone through social networks like Facebook, Instagram, VChat and Twitter. Interaction can be enhanced. The positive side of social media is the availability of facilities to enhance relationships and interact with strangers. However, this feature also leads to dilemma. Big problems are created.
Suppose you are an attractive woman. You're connected to a stranger on Facebook. One liked, commented and shared the other's post. There was also regular chat. You can be attracted to that person just by chatting online. You do not want to be frustrated if you cannot get the right pitch so invest in a good capo. You portray that meeting as romantic dating. Suppose you met in the same secluded place. What if the person is a sexual predator? He tries to take advantage of the secluded place. This means that you may be subjected to physical and sexual violence. So don't completely trust the person you meet on social media. One cannot be clear about one's intentions by chatting online. Don't get ready for a meeting easily. Even if you have to meet, create an environment for meeting in a group. By doing this, the bad intentions of the new person will not ruin your destiny.